How To Confidently Flirt With Women

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How To Confidently Flirt With Women

Flirting is something you do to get a partner and when we flirt we are trying to send messages with our body language to potential partners. You can show them that you are playful, open or approachable.

1. Start your conversations in a fun, positive way

Most people you interreact with have boring everyday conversations. By becoming someone that makes them laugh and feel good you are now somebody that they want to be around. You can try to be the person who gives her high energy compliments with more unique words for no reason.

2. Use over the top teasing

Too many compliments is boring, too much teasing can make you seem like a jerk but by combining the two you can make a roller coaster of emotions for her. One way of teasing is when you call out the person for something cliché because then it makes them try to justify why there are different and not like the cliché, basically trying to get you to view them as unique.

3. Be playfully absurd

Playfulness is an important factor to flirting. You want to make a conversation that’s fun and established and not just giving random information. Teasing and being playfully absurd is important in creating chemistry because flirting also has the goal in creating emotion in the other person so you two can share a moment.

4. Create a safe environment for people to be flirty and sexual

A way to create this type of environment is by going there first on your own with a joke that isn’t about them. Make jokes about dating or sex to see how she responds, if she laughs and jumps in great, if she doesn’t you have to stop before you come across as creepy.

Another way is by playfully misinterpreting something that she said so that she looks like the one who took the conversation sexual. In using humor and framing it like she insinuated it, she has the opportunity to laugh and move on without creating any awkwardness.

5. Flirt with the world

Don’t only flirt with girls your interested in but with everyone. You might have to tone it down with the misinterpreting and flirting but you can still compliment other people and make innuendos to make others laugh. By making crowds of people around you laugh and have fun you automatically become more attractive and become more approachable.

6. Have leaned back body language

To make flirting a bit easier you have to have lean back body language. Don’t lean in closely when your speaking to someone because it can make them feel trapped and pressured sometimes. If you lean back you show that you aren’t trapping them and wouldn’t follow if they walked away.

7. Get comfortable with your worst case scenario

You have to get out of your comfort zone and learn how to push past them. One example would be if an awkward pause occurred in the conversation, with that you can simply make light and crack a joke about the pause. You can do this first by talking with new people just to gain some experience.

Final Thoughts

Flirting is something you must learn to master because of all the benefits that come with it. It is not only good for finding a partner but also in making friends wherever you go. Always remember to relax and have fun with it because in the end that’s all they’re remember of you.